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The app for couples with a dynamic of leading and devotion · 18+
Your dynamic.Your rules.
BondMe is a private app for a leading and a devoted partner. Agreements, rituals, tasks, points, rewards and consequences in one shared system — with your limits and safe words always within reach.
Coming soonGoogle PlayComing soonApp Store
Free to download · Try Premium free · one subscription for both of you
- Code-only pairing
- No public profiles, no people search.
- Clear roles
- The leading partner guides, the devoted partner delivers.
- Safety in your pocket
- Limits, safe words and emergency contacts.
- Discreet
- PIN or fingerprint lock and a Notes icon.
How it works
Connect.Choose roles. Begin.
- 01Your invite codeK7Q2MX
Share your code
Everyone has a private six-character code. Your partner enters it and sends an invite — nobody else can find you in the app.
- 02Leading roleDevoted role
Choose your roles
Whoever invites picks a role. The partner gets the other one and confirms it when accepting. Every pair has its own roles.
- 03+10 pts60 pts−30 pts
Play your way
The leading partner sets tasks, rewards and consequences. The devoted partner completes them, earns points and claims rewards.
Tasks and points
Done. Approved. Credited.
The leading partner sets a task and decides how many points are at stake. The devoted partner marks it done, but the points only land after approval. Nothing is credited by itself, nothing gets lost.
- Every task has a clear state: open, awaiting approval, completed.
- Send an unfinished task back with one tap.
- A notification tells you when something is waiting for you.
Rewards and consequences
Points that mean something.
Tasks earn points, rewards spend them. A consequence puts points on hold right away — and once it’s completed, they come back. Clear rules, never a double penalty.
Complete tasks → earn points → spend them on rewards.
- Create your own rewards with your own point prices.
- The full points history is one tap away.
- A negative balance shows up as debt — nothing stays hidden.
Boundaries and safety
Boundaries are not a footnote.
Soft and hard limits, safe words, health notes and emergency contacts live in one place. Either of you can edit them — the devoted partner included.
- Soft means only when agreed. Hard means never.
- Safe words with meanings, so every moment stays clear.
- Call or text an emergency contact straight from the app.
Privacy
Nobody can find you.Not even on your home screen.
BondMe has no public profiles and no user directory. You connect only through a code you hand over yourselves, and what you share stays between the two of you. With Premium, the app turns into an unremarkable Notes icon and locks with a PIN, fingerprint or Face ID.
- Hidden mode
- On Android, the icon and name change to Notes. On iPhone, the icon changes.
- App lock
- Opening the app asks for a PIN, fingerprint or Face ID. The PIN never leaves your phone.
- Just the two of you
- Only the two members of a pair can access its tasks, limits and points.
- Notifications on your terms
- Switch alerts off with a single toggle in settings.
Also inside
- Rituals
- Recurring moments you both look forward to.
- Multiple partners
- Every pair gets its own space, points and roles.
- Light and dark
- Match your mood, or your phone.
- Czech and English
- Switch the language any time in settings.
FAQ
What people ask.
What is BondMe?
An app for couples who want a dynamic of leading and devotion. The leading partner sets tasks, rewards and consequences, the devoted partner completes them and earns points. Both keep limits, safe words and other safety information at hand.
Is BondMe only for experienced couples?
No. It works for experienced couples and for those just starting to explore this kind of dynamic — tasks, points and rewards make a good, playful start. Consent between two adults always comes first.
Is the app free?
Yes. The free version includes every core feature; only tasks, rewards and consequences are limited to five of each. Premium removes the limit and adds hidden mode, an app lock and the inspiration library.
Do we both have to pay for Premium?
No. When one of you pays for Premium, the partner you are paired with in the app gets it too. One subscription covers the whole couple.
Can I try Premium?
Yes. New subscribers can try Premium for free first. Cancel the trial in Google Play or the App Store before it ends and you pay nothing. A few times a year there are also time-limited offers, for example for Valentine’s Day, at Christmas or around your birthday.
How does recommending another couple work?
The app gives you a referral link. When a new couple signs up through it and pairs, you and they each get a month of Premium for free. Only a genuinely new couple earns the reward, and the number of rewards per account is limited.
What is the inspiration library?
Part of Premium: a collection of ready-made tasks, rewards and consequences for connection, care, protocol and play, plus soft and hard limits and proven safe words. Add any of them and adjust it to suit you. Your limits and mutual consent always apply.
How do I connect with my partner?
You’ll find your six-character code in the app. Your partner enters it, picks a role and sends you an invite. Accept it and your shared space is ready.
Can anyone else see my data?
A pair’s content — tasks, rewards, limits and points — is available only to the two of you. There is no public profile and no user directory where anyone could find you.
What does hidden mode do?
On Android it changes the app’s icon and name to Notes, so it doesn’t stand out on your home screen. On iPhone the icon changes; the system doesn’t allow renaming. Hidden mode is part of Premium.
How does the app lock work?
With Premium you can lock the app with a four-digit PIN and also unlock it with your fingerprint or Face ID. It asks when you open the app and when you come back to it — right away, or after 1, 5 or 15 minutes, as you choose. The PIN is stored only on your phone, and your fingerprint and face are checked by the phone itself; BondMe never has access to them. It adds to your phone’s screen lock rather than replacing it.
Can I have more than one partner?
Yes. Every partnership has its own tasks, points and roles, and you switch between them from the app menu.
Where can I download it?
The Android version is coming soon to Google Play and will be free to download. The iPhone version is on its way to the App Store.
Why do I have to confirm I’m 18?
BondMe is for adults only. When you sign up, you confirm you are at least 18 and accept the terms of use and the privacy policy.
How do I delete my account?
In the app, open Profile / Settings, choose Delete account and confirm by signing in again. Your account, profile and all partnerships, including shared content, are deleted. Cancel your subscription separately in Google Play or the App Store. See the Delete account page for details.
Coming soon to Google Play.
We’re finishing BondMe for Android. It will be free to download — then just send your partner your code and set the first task.
Coming soonGoogle PlayComing soonApp Store
Free to download · Try Premium free · one subscription for both of you